Nothing in life offers a more potent opportunity for inner growth as the break-up of an old relationship. It calls us to expand our perspective on how to stop being a victim.
Responding to an online post in which the poster writes:
"I am a 29 year old coming out of a long relationship. Post that I feel lost, be it at work or on the personal front. I don't feel worthy of anything. I feel like going back over the years and starting over my life. I can't muster the courage however hard I try to move on with my life. I have tried therapy, meditations and lifestyle changes, but can't seem to find any relief. I suffocate within myself, no interest to do anything whatsoever. It shows in my work, my relationships with family and friends. My friends think I am too desperate. The lockdown has further aggravated the issue. All I feel like is running away and spending time with people who don't know me, but that too I'm unable to do it. I feel it is all stemming from how unworthy, ugly and boring I find myself."
When the Dark Night of the Soul shows up the good news is after the night comes a new dawn like one you have never experienced. That is how Spiritual Intelligence works. It is important to know the darkness descends only when your inner being is ready for it and has already built the inner strength to break through to the dawn, even though it may not be visible to you. Fortunately, now we have many healing tools that integrate the physical, mental/emotional and other subtle bodies with the Spiritual Intelligence. That is where the long lasting healing comes from.
If this line of thinking is of interest to you, feel free to reach out and check my Mentoring Program on Spiritual Intelligence. We can begin with a chat.